QUESTION: If you see the devastating effects of Narcissistic Abuse at home with family and friends, or at work with colleagues and co-workers; and then you are given an opportunity to respond and quickly change it into a healthy home environment and/or work environment for you and others  ….Would you?

Dr. Rita Thornton, J.D., Ed.S., Ph.D. uses a new transformational leadership style and her Emotional Intelligence (EI) skills to help educate people (especially females), who want to make a change in how they respond to Narcissistic Abuse in a way that prioritizes the well-being and personal safety for everyone. A new leadership style that allows everyone to feel uplifted and inspired because it thrives on productivity that supports Peace.

The Power of Uplifting Others becomes a WIN WIN! … a catalyst for mutual success

The Dr.Rita Hearts Ablaze Ministries is a 501(c) 3 non-profit education ministry that is filled with female spiritual Hearts ignited with a passion to educate and comfort females and children who have been abused (2 Corinthians 1:3 & 4).  The ministry teaches females and children about how to use their God-given Spiritual Tools and EI skills to identify and respond to Narcissistic Abuse in a way that gives them Peace.              A peaceful heart gives life and health to the body (Proverbs 14:30) 

To BREAK FREE from Narcissistic Abuse involves using a 3-Point Approach:

1). A person who “wants to learn” how to identify Narcissistic Abuse so that they have the knowledge and confidence to step back and create their own “safe space” and healthy human environment in real time without having to rely on other people

2). Looking at the “speed” at which the Narcissistic Abusive behavior is identified, addressed, and corrected 

3). “Reshaping the culture” around a person who has been abused at work, home, church, or school so they respond quickly in a healthy way that uplifts the person who suffers from the hidden abuse. For example, if the person is a female, then the “reshaping” will ensure that an abused female’s voice is HEARD, her emotional scares are SEEN, and what she SAYS about the abuse matters. 

In other words, whenever and wherever Narcissistic Abuse occurs (at work, home, church, school, etc.) there is an immediate need for a person who feels they have been abused to quickly respond in a peaceful way that protects them and others.    

With Dr. Rita’s 20+ years of results-oriented leadership experience and her Emotional Intelligence (EI) expertise as an educator, project manager, CEO, female leader, college professor, and survivor of Narcissistic Abuse, she has created a Spiritual Survival Guidebook and an 8-week virtual Emotional Intelligence (EI) Leadership Certification Course. The Survival Guidebook and EI Certification Course are both designed to provide the knowledge and skill-set necessary to be certified in Discernment and EI Assessment skills so that when the knowledge and skills are applied, a person can quickly identify the source of the Narcissistic Abuse, complete an EI Assessment by using their Discernment skills as they document the abusive Behavior in real time.  This unique leadership style is designed to address Narcissistic Abuse in the workplace, at home, at church, and/or in school because, it Does Not rely on Human Intelligence, which experience and evidence-based data have both shown NEVER WORKS when trying to manage conflict that is created by Narcissistic Abuse!  This new leadership style quickly identifies Narcissistic Abuse; and therefore, allows less time and money to be spent on 3rd party investigations because it quickly corrects the abusive behavior in real time with quick meaningful consequences. This in turn, increases morale and productivity while at the same time, provides a positive “uplifting” climate, a safe space, and healthy work, home, and/or school environment for all human beings. 

Something she had to learn how to do for herself, she now coaches other females who experience Narcissistic Abuse at work, at home, and/or at school. All the females told her that they also got the same amazing results of establishing a healthy human enviornment in record time. So, these females told Dr. Rita that she should not keep this unique leadership style to herself, but she should share it with the world!

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Having the knowledge necessary to know how and when you and/or others are being abused, is an Emotional Intelligence (EI) leadership skill-set necessary when considering good leadership potential  vs. poor leadership potential because, it has been proven that toxic stress/narcissistic abusive experiences will decrease a leader’s EI leadership abilities. So, this one-of-a-kind spiritual survival Guidebook+  will …

• Administer a science-based spiritual approach to quickly recognize/spot the source of conflict and abusive tactics being used in real time
• Identify and explain the different types of abuse used in today’s workplace
• Teach, train, and transform the minds of female leaders and project managers so they can quickly and skillfully discern/spot the type of Human environment* or “culture” that surrounds them at work (*Toxic) 
• Provide the Discernment and Emotional Intelligence (EI) tools necessary for female leaders to see or notice a person who has a Bad* heart (*has personality disorder traits) 

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+Dr. Thornton was inspired to write this Guidebook and create the EI Certification Course based on a quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. “Use me, God. Show me how to take who I am, who I want to be, and what I can do, and use it for a purpose greater than myself.”

This is a Spiritual Weaponsmith-Guidebook for female leaders. This Guidebook is designed to show female leaders the Way to take a stand against workplace narcissistic abuse that is the silent killer, which seeks to steal, kill, and destroy the emotional freedom and mental thoughts of safety within the Soul of any abused employee in today’s work environment:.

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This is a Holy Spirit Guidebook that teaches Believers of the Trinity God, the Christian Way to successfully WIN in the Art of War against Narcissistic Abuse. The Guidebook identifies ten Points of Light that females should know when in a Spiritual War against Narcissists. Knowing theses Points of Light will help educate and comfort Christian females who want God’s Peace in their life as they spiritually grow in God’s Word and Jesus’ teachings.

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8-Week Live Virtual Emotional Intelligence (EI) Leadership Certification Course for female leaders and project managers who are experiencing or have experienced emotional conflict and workplace bullying

      A Social Change with a Leadership Gain!

It’s all about the SPEED at which you detect the conflict and correct the Bad Behavior /Abuse/Bullying in the workplace. With a rise in violence post COVID, up to 87% of females are subjected to workplace bullying/abuse (Springer Link-2021).  At a cost of $125,000 per traumatized employee, the faster female leaders detect the conflict and correct the Bad Behavior in the workplace in real time, the more uplifting all of the employees become.  When a female leader/project manager becomes certified to use her EI skills, a single business’ financial costs per traumatized employee would decrease while at the same time uplifting the employees of that business…a WIN WIN!  So, the power of uplifting others becomes a catalyst for mutual success. Become a certified EI female leader who prioritizes the well-being and personal safety of all of her team members so they have a “safe space” that allows them to be an inclusive workforce thriving on innovation and productivity.

Did you know Bad Behavior/workplace misconduct cost US Businesses $20.2 billion (Forbes & Vault Platform -2021)

One (1) Bully costs a single business up to $125,000 per year per traumatized employee because one (1) Bully …

• Lowers morale*
• Lowers productivity – ($2.6 billion in lost productivity) 

• Increases number of employees traumatized by Bad Behavior 

• Increases costs due to HR 3rd party Investigations – (up to 9 months to resolve each Bullying case with a cost between $75,000 - $125,00 per traumatized employee) 

• Increases Turnover Rates* 

*  Poor Workplace Morale = High Turnover Rate costing a business up to 50% of an employee’s yearly salary

Dr. Thornton has created a unique leadership style and high-level integrity coaching approach that really works because it quickly gets and retains results in real time by introducing social change within a diverse and inclusive work environment …Post COVID.

Each week she will teach, train, and coach female leaders/project managers to know how to turn the Gift of Discernment into a learned skill which uses Emotional Intelligence Assessments to quickly recognize/detect and correct Bad Behavior in the workplace so that all employees feel safe and become an empowered workforce thriving on innovation and productivity.  This quick meaningful response to conflict and Bad Behavior in real time will decrease the amount of time and money spent on 3rd party investigations while at the same time increase morale and the organization’s productivity. Having an increase in productivity clearly shows that there is a positive business climate and new company “culture” that prioritizes the well-being and personal safety of all of its employees. 

Dr. Rita will use her 20+ years of results-oriented leadership experience and Emotional Intelligence (EI) expertise to personally Coach all attendees through this 8-week EI  Leadership Certification Course. The EI Course offers weekly fun-filled Workshops and Exercises for the female leaders/project managers to practice Discernment and Emotional Intelligence skills so that upon their completion of the Course, the female leader/project manager becomes officially certified to address any emotional conflict and “social” misconduct problem in the workplace by conducting an EI Assessment.

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